I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE please help me..?

that is a very difficult sictuation and yea I do think it's time for you to reach out to him even though maybe you feel like he should have maybe tried harder to reach out to you at the beginning. but obviouly he's going through a lot and he could probably use any support he can right now. I would try to eaither find his house phone number and try reasching him that way or simply show up at his house. I mean he did try to call you at first and all you can do now is show him that you care if you actually do and the only way to do that is to try really hard because that's how we show people that we care about them. It will probably mean a lot to him if you went out of your way to get in touch. and whats the worse that can happen? he can tell you that he doesnt want to see you? I mean at least then you'll know that you tried and it will be up to him. but im more than possitive it would work out! good luccck